Relationships....

People meet, fall in love and then after a certain period of time choose different path and drift away. after that you are all alone. The question mark is all what is left sometimes with you. you keep on questioning yourself why everything you thought was supposed to be right suddenly shattered like paper castles( tash ke patto ke mahal ki tarah). and you just can't think of a solution, everything in the world seems to be working against you, every single dream of your keeps crashing down.. and you keep asking yourself what if this is how things are supposed to end, what if you are not supposed to get what you want?just sit and think, analyze what went wrong, if even that doesn't seem to help, leave the thing as it is... may be something else is in store... what about broken relationships then one might ask...

are we supposed to leave that too in its tattered condition.. well every relationship has its own course, its just like a river, it might start on a pretty nice course when its young, irrigating several barren lands as it goes... serving to be an elixir to everyone around making everything around it fresh, full of life and positive... then comes the phase of destruction, calamity, when it destroys everything in its way, it gets onto an uneven course in the rain causing floods and in the end gets one with the ocean and dissolves forever... its never dead, this process goes on and on.. same is with a relationship I think, the first few months or even a year is all 'too-good-to-be-true" phase, everything seems lovely, there are no fights, everything is romantic and beautiful in and around you... Then after this phase is over comes the phase of fights, depression and rare romance, where every little thing triggers a heated conversation, everything about one would irate the partner, there would be frequent fights.... and then slowly love seems to fade out... it seems that though you don't wanna leave that person as you love him/her, you tend to speak less, brood and crib more and then in turn fight even more..

that's why sometimes its better that there is a certain distance between two people, too much closeness and intimacy often leads to these problems... from the very beginning make this a point... take everything slow, have a certain pace, don't rush into anything, let time take its own pace, unravel the mystery on it own.... most important TRUST one another, when there's no trust, there is actually no relationship at all. be patient enough, and obviously its not possible to both of the people to be patient at the same time but when one is not the other one should shed his/her ego and try make amends. Specially when its a long distance relationship, problems arise every now and then but if you really love that person, don't let him/her go, if you know S/he's "THE RIGHT ONE", don't let all the love go to vain.

otherwise you might just end up with a broken relationship and even more badly broken and bruised heart....  remember one thing LOVE never dies, its just we somewhere lose ourselves in the whole process..... but this all doesn't mean that you stop showering your partner with all the love you have got but just let all the love sink in, maintain a certain distance, let both of you breathe in your own certain space... 







 I think that's all I can say as that's all I have personally gathered from every experience I have had and everything I have seen..


-- Dipannita Saha

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CONSTIPATION & DIAHORREA

first of all what's the damn spelling? diarrhea or diahorrea? searched wiki, gives both as an option!! how silly!!
yea anyways whatever!!

I have a fan in my bathroom!! Now don't give me that look, seriously I do!! its so useful, specially in the summers of delhi, sweating yourself in the bathroom I guess won't be anybody's choice!!!

And specially when you, like me, have a weird stomach situation; gets upset on its own!! I guess it has a mind of his own, and as we know with mind comes erratic mood swings and behavior (yes am talking about myself and my stomach both!!) so anyways back to my Tummy, either its constipated or is in loose motion mode!!! weird I tell you that it just cant be a normal stomach, so both of these conditions require frequent visits to the bathroom and spending long hours in there, thats when the fan in my bathroom comes handy!! Its such a respite, even when showering you can have the leisure of cool breeze around, sort of having a bath in a tropical rainforest under the waterfall and its windy!!! :)

so yea a word of advice to you guys get a fan in your bathroom!!
hey hey before concluding this, a weird thought stuck me, If somebody isnt looking too good or something like that we use the phrase- "He/She is looking so constipated" so why don't we use a phrase like- "He/She is so Diahorreated" LMAO!!
think about it!!

Adiose

-- Dipannita Saha

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Raining Goals in Raining Cape Town!!!

"Tsamina Tsamina eh eh, Waka Waka eh eh, Tsamina Tsamina Zangalewa, This time for Africa!!" can't help but sing this song out loud specially after today's magnificent game of Portugal. I mean DUDE it was 7-0, the biggest defeat for DPR Korea even beating the 7-1 defeat of theirs in 70's. Portugal was surely on fire we can say..


Ronaldo, after his what some 16 months of International Goal drought surely got some respite today after his umpteenth efforts to score a goal. poor Ronaldo, we can't blame him can we? he's the most well paid player out there, may be it makes him a little 'AIR-HEADED'!! He's gonna get more focused am sure, this one goal of his was enough to massage his ego!! (no-offence to all those Ronaldo devotees). There were many surprises today - Tiago(2), Mireles, Almeida & Lieadson,.

well so anyways Portugal is back to nice strong form( or Koreans were having another bad day in defense and attacking!!) I just can't stop thinking how interesting it would be to see some action between teams like Spain, Argentina(TEVEZ is awesome), Brazil, Germany (have li'l hopes for them), Italy and of course Portugal!!

So after 7 goals, I am gonna hit the sack for a while now!! too tired from cheering and all the shouting!!

ADIOSE!!

-- Dipannita Saha

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My first day at the blogspot.

I seldom surprise myself, and surely today is one of those days. I have finally after all the- "No I won't have a blog ever" or "how do people actually care to manage one" phase I decided to write one on my own blog. Though am sure it wont be much nice and classy and all that whatever people expect or dont expect to be.... Its gonna be as random as it can be, starting from routine to any movie I saw or a book I read or a cute guy I checked (which really happens rare as my locality sure has dearth of cute people), but am sure gonna write. So here I go then..



Funny as it would seem it took me like what 2 hours to figure out what all and how all I can bring changes, make it various changes in blog.. Great, so I am finally here, sitting here writting a blog about my first day here...
Finally proved myself I can be more than just a lazy bum dozing all day doing nothing!!

not exactly nothing by the way, I have taken the kitchen under my wings, I have been making good healthy tasty breakfast, lunch and dinner for all from past 2 days (this is what boredom can do to you, you actually start doing things!!) despite of the fact that am not doing the dishes and cleaning the kitchen!!

I did learn one thing in these days of being home- "Despite of the fact that I shouldn't stay HOME!! Makes me dull. But this heat, oh my god, bring on the vegetables, I would rather cut them while leisurely sitting on my sofa while the AC's on full blast than going out in the sun; and getting tanned, NO WAY!!"

Now I have this blog now and as I have sweat so much (not literally) to modify it, write it and to stop my mind from wondering, I think my off-time( which is almost all of the hours am awake) won't go vain after all...

Best of luck to me!!! I should better go and celebrate this great victory over laziness over a chilled glass of Limca!!
ADIOSE!!

-- Dipannita Saha

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