Relationships....

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People meet, fall in love and then after a certain period of time choose different path and drift away. after that you are all alone. The question mark is all what is left sometimes with you. you keep on questioning yourself why everything you thought was supposed to be right suddenly shattered like paper castles( tash ke patto ke mahal ki tarah). and you just can't think of a solution, everything in the world seems to be working against you, every single dream of your keeps crashing down.. and you keep asking yourself what if this is how things are supposed to end, what if you are not supposed to get what you want?just sit and think, analyze what went wrong, if even that doesn't seem to help, leave the thing as it is... may be something else is in store... what about broken relationships then one might ask...

are we supposed to leave that too in its tattered condition.. well every relationship has its own course, its just like a river, it might start on a pretty nice course when its young, irrigating several barren lands as it goes... serving to be an elixir to everyone around making everything around it fresh, full of life and positive... then comes the phase of destruction, calamity, when it destroys everything in its way, it gets onto an uneven course in the rain causing floods and in the end gets one with the ocean and dissolves forever... its never dead, this process goes on and on.. same is with a relationship I think, the first few months or even a year is all 'too-good-to-be-true" phase, everything seems lovely, there are no fights, everything is romantic and beautiful in and around you... Then after this phase is over comes the phase of fights, depression and rare romance, where every little thing triggers a heated conversation, everything about one would irate the partner, there would be frequent fights.... and then slowly love seems to fade out... it seems that though you don't wanna leave that person as you love him/her, you tend to speak less, brood and crib more and then in turn fight even more..

that's why sometimes its better that there is a certain distance between two people, too much closeness and intimacy often leads to these problems... from the very beginning make this a point... take everything slow, have a certain pace, don't rush into anything, let time take its own pace, unravel the mystery on it own.... most important TRUST one another, when there's no trust, there is actually no relationship at all. be patient enough, and obviously its not possible to both of the people to be patient at the same time but when one is not the other one should shed his/her ego and try make amends. Specially when its a long distance relationship, problems arise every now and then but if you really love that person, don't let him/her go, if you know S/he's "THE RIGHT ONE", don't let all the love go to vain.

otherwise you might just end up with a broken relationship and even more badly broken and bruised heart....  remember one thing LOVE never dies, its just we somewhere lose ourselves in the whole process..... but this all doesn't mean that you stop showering your partner with all the love you have got but just let all the love sink in, maintain a certain distance, let both of you breathe in your own certain space... 







 I think that's all I can say as that's all I have personally gathered from every experience I have had and everything I have seen..


-- Dipannita Saha

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