People meet, fall in love and then after a certain period of time choose different path and drift away. after that you are all alone. The question mark is all what is left sometimes with you. you keep on questioning yourself why everything you thought was supposed to be right suddenly shattered like paper castles( tash ke patto ke mahal ki tarah). and you just can't think of a solution, everything in the world seems to be working against you, every single dream of your keeps crashing down.. and you keep asking yourself what if this is how things are supposed to end, what if you are not supposed to get what you want?just sit and think, analyze what went wrong, if even that doesn't seem to help, leave the thing as it is... may be something else is in store... what about broken relationships then one might ask...
that's why sometimes its better that there is a certain distance between two people, too much closeness and intimacy often leads to these problems... from the very beginning make this a point... take everything slow, have a certain pace, don't rush into anything, let time take its own pace, unravel the mystery on it own.... most important TRUST one another, when there's no trust, there is actually no relationship at all. be patient enough, and obviously its not possible to both of the people to be patient at the same time but when one is not the other one should shed his/her ego and try make amends. Specially when its a long distance relationship, problems arise every now and then but if you really love that person, don't let him/her go, if you know S/he's "THE RIGHT ONE", don't let all the love go to vain.
I think that's all I can say as that's all I have personally gathered from every experience I have had and everything I have seen..
-- Dipannita Saha
